Tomorrow is Jackson's last day of PreK. It almost seems impossible that we made it to the end of the year in one piece. This year has been difficult for Jackson and our family (I'm sure his teaches would say the same thing). The year started with a lot of sad faces on his daily calendar. There were meltdowns and hard transitions. There was a lot of anger, frustration, aggression, stress, anxiety and tears (for Jackson and myself). There were doctor appointments and an ADHD diagnosis (on Continue Reading
Five Minute Friday {Should}
Jackson hasn't touched a peanut butter and jelly sandwich in over a week. This is the kid who ate them every. single. day. for about two years! I wrote a little bit about my food concerns earlier this week. You can read all about that here. The big question I've asked myself this week is, Should we look into food therapy? We had an appointment with Jackson's developmental pediatrician Thursday. I shared my concerns about Jackson's very picky eating habits and his sudden dislike of Continue Reading
What If He Won’t Eat the PB&J
I've been making peanut butter and jelly sandwiches daily for at least two years. I'm serious. The sandwiches have been our saving grace. There are some days Jackson eats one for lunch and dinner. I've often complained about having to make another PB&J. Today I'm wishing I would have kept my mouth shut. PB&J is pretty much the only thing Jackson eats consistently and he hasn't touched his sandwich the past few days. Maybe he's just burnt out. I'd totally understand Continue Reading
Lessons Through Suffering
There's a verse I love that sheds light on suffering and promises it won't be wasted. Romans 5:3-4 says: Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character hope. I'm hesitant to use the word suffering to describe our special needs journey. Yes, sometimes the insurance denials, challenging behaviors and loneliness feel pretty hard, but that seems like small potatoes when there are people dying for Continue Reading
Keep Doing the Hard Things
We'd had a few really hard weeks. Crazy after-school meltdowns from the ADHD medication. More sad faces than smiley faces in his school folder. Doctors appointments to try and figure out his ADHD medicine. Aggression. Lots and lots of tears (from both of us). Starting a new therapy with little hope it would help. Putting our house on the market to move to a better school district. Honestly, there were a few days during that rough patch when I thought anyone else could do Continue Reading